{"id":241,"date":"2017-02-17T12:28:04","date_gmt":"2017-02-17T11:28:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.agostinjani.org\/malti\/riflessjonijiet-u-artikli\/ray-francalanza-riflessjonijiet-u-artikli\/jekk-dawn-iva-ghaliex-jien-mhux-ukoll-2\/"},"modified":"2017-02-17T12:28:04","modified_gmt":"2017-02-17T12:28:04","slug":"jekk-dawn-iva-ghaliex-jien-mhux-ukoll-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/agostinjani.org\/mt\/riflessjonijiet-u-artikli\/ray-francalanza-riflessjonijiet-u-artikli\/jekk-dawn-iva-ghaliex-jien-mhux-ukoll-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Jekk dawn iva\u2026 g\u0127aliex jien mhux ukoll?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tul dawn l-a\u0127\u0127ar snin, zdied b\u2019mod qawwi, l-g\u0127arfien tag\u0127na nfusna. Huma \u0127afna ir-ri\u010berki, l-istudji (spe\u010bjalment fil-psikolo\u0121ija u l-psikanali\u017ci), flimkien ma\u2019 esperimenti u teoriji li<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>jg\u0127inuna biex nifhmu a\u0127jar min a\u0127na, x\u2019jkun g\u0127addej \u0121o fina\u2026mill-\u0121uf sa\u2019 l-a\u0127\u0127ar nett. Imma meta t\u0127alli fil-\u0121enb dan kollu, nibqg\u0127u a\u0127na, we\u0127dina mag\u0127na nfusna nippruvaw ng\u0127ixu b\u2019dak kollu (<em>il-baggage<\/em>) li hemm fina\u2026li meta toqg\u0127od ta\u0127seb, mhuwiex ftit. Per ezempju:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Fina hemm ji\u017cfnu tant idejali u \u0127olm, jg\u0127umu tant \u0127ti\u0121jiet (<em>m\u0127abba, pa\u010bi, a\u010b\u010betazzjoni<\/em>) u hemm hemm \u2018\u0127azen\u2019 li j\u0127ajjrek ukoll!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Fina hemm fer\u0127, \u0121enn, biki u we\u0121g\u0127at u l-bambin biss min kemm ng\u0127addu minn mumenti o\u0127ra! Drabi nkunu qisna buffi\u2026anke jekk hawn min jg\u0127idilha immaturita\u2019, u drabi nkunu katavri\u2026\u0127asra\u2026is-sabi\u0127a li din hawn min jsej\u0127ilha esperjenza! L-eta\u2019 mhux kollox\u2026infatti hawn tfal\/\u017cg\u0127ar di\u0121a bil-penzjoni u hawn kbar g\u0127adhom bl-<em>ispark<\/em> f\u2019qalbhom u f\u2019g\u0127ajnejhom! Dejjem laqtitni l-espressjoni li nsibu fil-ktieb tal-G\u0127erf li tg\u0127id li \u201ci<em>\u017c-\u017cmien ta\u2019 \u0127ajja ma jitqiesx mit-tul tal-jiem..imma hu l-g\u0127aqal li jag\u0127mel il-vera xju\u0127ija\/kobor!<\/em>\u201d.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Fina hemm labirinti enormi: lkoll g\u0127andna <em>t-toys<\/em> tag\u0127na, is-sigrieti tag\u0127na (il-passat u d-dellijiet ta\u2019 \u0121o fina), il-kompensassjonijiet tag\u0127na, l-isvogi u l-fwawar tag\u0127na. Issib min hu be\u017cg\u0127an minn kollox u min irpuzat u tarah jehodha easy dwar kollox. Fl-estrem, l-ie\u0127or hemm min il-\u0127in kollu jg\u0127ix f\u2019\u0127itan, f\u2019\u0127afna suppostijiet, morali\u017cmi u b\u2019\u0127afna <em>bracketing<\/em>, u min bil-maqlub\u2026 kaxxa infernali\u2026jrid jaqbez il-<em>borders<\/em> u l-parametri sterjotipati\u2026li xi kultant vera hemm bzonn ni\u010b\u010balin\u0121ajawhom! (L-<em>istatus quo<\/em> li \u0127afna je\u0127lu fih!)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Nimxu lkoll b\u2019passi differenti: min ji\u0121ri, min jkaxakar saqajh. Min wasal di\u0121a\u2019 fir-raba millenju\u2026min g\u0127adu nizel mis-si\u0121ar! Min waqa f\u2019xi \u0127ofra ta\u2019 xi epoka partikolari (\u010berta nostal\u0121ija tal-passat) u g\u0127adu hemm..mo\u0127\u0127 <em>switch off<\/em>! Nivvja\u0121aw \u0127afna\u2026g\u0127alkemm l-itwal vja\u0121\u0121i jibqg\u0127u dawk ta\u2019 \u0121o fina.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Drabi n\u0127ossuna ver\u0121ni iktar minn ward ifu\u0127, drabi nkunu prostituti ta\u2019 xulxin. Sirna &#8211; u din \u0127asra &#8211; nixtru u narmu lil xulxin b\u0127al merkanzija. Il-famuz <em>traingleing<\/em> fil-\u0127ajja! U l-isfre\u0121ji li vvintajna: min jg\u0127addi fuq tapiti \u0127omor ta\u0127t inkini sfurzati <em>(l-vips<\/em>), min jid\u0127ol mill-bieb kwazi ta\u2019 wara b\u2019mist\u0127ija! U l-istunaturi li j\u010baqilqu anke lil Lazzru mill-qabar..(a) min ma jafx x\u2019se jag\u0127mel bil-lussu..rexta\/pantomina ta\u2019 \u0127afna atti! u min (b) vera m\u2019g\u0127andu xejn. Il-Papa Pawlu VI kien darba kien li dan id-<em>divide ekonomiku<\/em> g\u0127ad jkun kaw\u017ca ta\u2019 gwerra tremenda fid-dinja!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Irridu nduqu ftit minn kollox\u2026.irridu spiritwalita\u2019 li te\u0127lisna, fl-istess \u0127in it-tentazzjoni ta\u2019 l-idolatrija qeg\u0127da hemm ukoll. Hemm il-\u0121lieda mal-vizzijiet u l-frug\u0127at li qishom jg\u0127ajjtu f\u2019widnejna..<em>Int se twarrabna?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ir-ru\u0127 tag\u0127na &#8211; jekk nisimg\u0127uha sew &#8211; tibqa\u2019 dejjem imxennqa g\u0127all-liberta\u2019..t\u0127ossha \u0127afna din meta tixba mill-formalita\u2019, mill-irbit, mir-rutina tas-soltu, mill-kompettivita\u2019 selve\u0121\u0121a, minn kull \u0127aga li toqtlilna s-sempli\u010bita\u2019\u2026ru\u0127na trid il-varjeta\u2019, l-ispontanjeta\u2019, is-ser\u0127an.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>U g\u0127andna lkoll il-<em>forma mentis<\/em> tag\u0127na (ie l-mod kif a\u0127na mag\u0127mulin u na\u0127sbuha), l-idejat tag\u0127na, it-temperamenti tag\u0127na, il-pur\u010bissjoni tal-isku\u017ci tag\u0127na, ra\u0121unamenti li jvarjaw minn jekk g\u0127andniex g\u0127arbiel f\u2019idejna..niflu kollox farka farka, jew inkella komma tant wiesa li fiha il-lasktu g\u0127andu fejn jimra\u0127. L-istess b\u0127alma g\u0127andna lkoll gradi ta\u2019 passjoni differenti, \u0127e\u0121\u0121a u \u017celu differenti u modi kif nesprimu ru\u0127na differenti.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Qed naqsam mag\u0127kom dawn ir-riflessjonijiet (dwar x\u2019hemm \u0121o fina) fi \u017cmien meta bdejna il-mixja tar-Randan &#8211; \u017cmien li fih hemm stedina biex nid\u0127lu ftit fina nfusna iktar mis-soltu u waqt li naraw fejn a\u0127na ezattment &#8211; qisu b\u0127al meta tag\u0127mel \u010bertu <em>stock taking<\/em> &#8211; naraw x\u2019nistg\u0127u nwelldu fina..\u0127alli nkunu iktar s\u0127a\u0127 b\u2019mod \u0127olistiku.<\/p>\n<p>Il-\u2018lista\u2019 li semmejt jien fil-bidu hi wa\u0127da pjuttost \u0121enerali\u2026huma affarijiet li n\u0127oss jien ukoll u li nara f\u2019nies o\u0127ra meta niltaqa mag\u0127hom. Mhix lista \u2018morali\u2019..fis-sens ta\u2019 x\u2019inhu tajjeb jew le..imma huma mumenti\/esperjenzi li ng\u0127ixuhom lkoll. Jien dejjem emmint li hu bihom (<em>mhux ming\u0127ajrhom<\/em>) in\u0127obbu lil Alla u nistg\u0127u nibqg\u0127u ni\u010b\u010belebraw il-\u0127ajja. Forsi li nag\u0127mlu matul is-snin, hu li nirfinaw jew nidraw ng\u0127ixu b\u2019dak kollu li jkun hemm fina, b\u2019tali mod li nistg\u0127u ng\u0127ixu b\u2019\u010berta\u2019 serenita\u2019 wkoll.<\/p>\n<p>Xtaqt ng\u0127aqqad dawn il-\u0127sibijiet\/esperjenzi ma\u2019 xi nies li g\u0127exu qabilna u li nsibuhom fl-Iskrittura. U nixtieq nag\u0127mel dan bi skop pre\u010biz biex min qed jaqra din il-kitba\u2026jag\u0127mel kura\u0121\u0121 hu\/hi wkoll. Dan qed ng\u0127idu, g\u0127ax spiss niltaqa ma persuni li jaqtg\u0127u qalbhom mill-<em>baggage<\/em> li jkun hemm fihom. Li m\u2019g\u0127andux jkun il-kaz\u2026g\u0127ax b\u0127alma waslu dawn in-nies u Alla emmen fihom ukoll\u2026allura g\u0127alina l-orizzont..m\u2019g\u0127andux jaqtalna qalbna.<\/p>\n<p>Meta n\u0127ossuna hekk &#8211; i\u0121ifieri li ma niswew xejn , jew li m\u2019a\u0127nies \u2018tajba\u2019, jew li Alla m\u2019g\u0127andux bzonni &#8211; tajjeb li niftakru li b\u0127alma naqraw fl-Iskrittura:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Noe\u2019 darba spi\u010b\u010ba xurban.<\/li>\n<li>Abraham kien xi\u0127 wisq.<\/li>\n<li>Izakk kien j\u0127obb jo\u0127lom.<\/li>\n<li>\u0120akobb kien giddieb.<\/li>\n<li>Leah kienet kerha.<\/li>\n<li>\u0120uzeppi spi\u010b\u010ba abbuzat.<\/li>\n<li>Mose\u2019 kien itemtem.<\/li>\n<li>Gideon kien bezzieg\u0127.<\/li>\n<li>Sansun kellu xag\u0127ru twil u kien ji\u0121\u0121enen wara n-nisa.<\/li>\n<li>Ra\u0127ab kienet prostituta.<\/li>\n<li>\u0120eremija u Timotju kienu \u017cg\u0127ar.<\/li>\n<li>David kellu relazzjoni \u0127a\u017cina ma\u2019 mara u kien qattiel.<\/li>\n<li>\u0120ona pprova ja\u0127rab minn Alla.<\/li>\n<li>\u0120ob spi\u010b\u010ba fallut.<\/li>\n<li>\u0120wanni l-Battista kien stramb u jiekol l-insetti.<\/li>\n<li>Marta kienet tinkwieta \u0127afna fuq l-affarijiet materjali.<\/li>\n<li>Is-Samaritana kellha bosta r\u0121iel.<\/li>\n<li>Zakkew kien qsajjar u korrott.<\/li>\n<li>Pawlu kien fundamentalista.<\/li>\n<li>U Lazzru kien mejjet!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Issa dawn huma biss xi w\u0127ud! L-argument hu, li lil hin minn dak li kienu, jew kif x\u2019g\u0127amlu jew kif kienu jaraw lilhom nfushom\u2026.xorta jibqa\u2019 l-fatt li Alla g\u0127a\u017cel lil dawn kollha\u2026 ma be\u017cax jafdalhom missjoni u ma qatax qalbu mid-djufijiet tag\u0127hom .L-istess kif mhux se jaqta qalbu minna!<\/p>\n<p>L-istedina ta\u2019 indiema &#8211; fis-sens li kuljum nippruvaw inisru bnedmin \u0121odda &#8211; li tant nisimg\u0127u biha f\u2019dawn iz-zminijiet ma tfissirx biss \u010ba\u0127da u swied il-qalb imma..liberta\u2019 u fer\u0127. Tibda billi naraw lilna nfusna kif tassew a\u0127na u n\u0127allu lil Alla jkompli l-mixja ta\u2019 fejqan fina. F\u2019dan is-sens, il-konverzjoni mhix xi g\u0127ajta ta\u2019 impozzizjoni minn barra\u2026. minn hi qabel xejn, a\u0127bar tajba minn \u0121ewwa. Nifhmu dan\u2026na\u0127seb nkunu skoprejna sigriet kbir.<\/p>\n<p><em>Dan l-artiklu nkiteb meta Fr. 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